10 Signs Your Relationship Needs Help
1) Communication seems like it
is going in circles
2) S/he seems unwilling to compromise
3) Our personalities seem incompatible
4) His/Her family gets in the way
5) Fighting is cruel
6) Fighting never seems to reach resolution
7) Your fights become physical
8) You rarely or never have sex
9) You can't agree on how to
raise or discipline your children
10) You have discussed or fantasized about divorce
What Kind of Relationship Do You Have?
Fulfilled: You are best friends and lovers in every sense of the word. You feel supported by and are supportive of one another. You can’t imagine a sharing your with a different partner.
Friendship: You are a team and may or may not feel like your partner is your best friend. But the passion is gone. It may feel more like you are running a business together than being lovers. There are some simmering resentments underneath that you can’t seem to resolve and your fights may have a repetitive quality to them.
Detached: You feel like two ships passing in the night. While you may each know your roles in keeping the house running there is no sense of teamwork. You have lingering disdain for one another. You are together more out of habit than any sense of passion or love.
One Foot Out the Door: You're planning or fantasizing about your exit.
